In order to have that big O, women should not be scared to explore sex and their partners during sex. Try different positions, be aggressive, and own your man at the moment while making love to him. Just savor sex during the moment and let your wild side come out. Some women are embarrassed about this but this should not be the case. In fact, your partner wants you to be wild on bed and have sex with him like there is no tomorrow. Plus, there is nothing to be embarrassed about. He is your husband or boyfriend after all.